Nearly every supermarket car park features designated parent and child bays - but not everyone is clear on who they're actually meant for. The matter has triggered a debate on social media, with parents discussing what age children should no longer be using the spaces and whether there's an official rule that applies nationwide.
On Reddit, one exasperated mum posted a message ahead of the summer holidays, urging parents of older children to think carefully before occupying the parent and child parking bays. She wrote: "Dear parents, I hope you're all looking forward to spending time with your children and hopefully getting up to something fun! But PLEASE, I ask those of you with children no longer in car seats not to take up all of the parent and child spaces.
"Your 14-year-old is no longer a baby who needs space and assistance getting in and out of a car seat. You don't need the space. There, I said it.
"Sincerely, the mum of a screaming, wiggling baby who hates the car."
While it isn't illegal to park in a parent and child bay with an older child - or even without a child at all - drivers could still face a Parking Charge Notice (PCN) depending on the regulations set by the supermarket or car park operator.
According to the RAC, parent and child bays are typically intended for parents or guardians travelling with one or more children under the age of 12.
The organisation explains: "Parent and child bays are reserved for parents or guardians with one or more children under 12-year- old."
The guidance adds that while using these spaces isn't covered by legislation, drivers who disregard the terms and conditions of a private car park could face a penalty charge.
The Reddit post swiftly drew hundreds of comments from parents eager to share their own experiences.
One user wrote: "Last year I had an argument with a woman at Sainsbury's who parked in one of the parent and child spaces with no child to be seen.
"When I pulled her up on it, she said, 'Well actually she's just gone across the road quickly.'
"She shut up very quickly when I told her that if her child is old enough to cross a busy main road by herself, she does not need a parent and child space."
Another parent commented: "I have a four-year-old and a baby and it's so stressful trying to get both of them in and out of the car in a regular space.
"When we just had one I could at least pull the car over to one side of a normal bay. Now it's ridiculous."
A third user added: "I'd prefer it if supermarkets put the parent and toddler bays further away from the entrance. That would drastically reduce the number of people who don't need them using them.
"From a mum of a 2.5-year-old and an eight-month-old."
